Slacker and Steve - OPP: Cold Feet (Audio)

April 27, 2017

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Today's OPP is from Krista:


Yi Slacker & Steve,
I’m getting married in a little over a month and I’m kind of freaking out. There are a thousand things running through my head and I’m not sure if I’m ready to get married. First, my ex texted me out of the blue a few weeks ago just to tell me a restaurant we went to all the time was closing. Nothing serious, but why after not talking for years does he text me right before my wedding? There’s that. Then I am suddenly terrified by the idea of being tied to a single person for the rest of my life. There aren’t going to be anymore firsts—fist dates, first kisses, first time saying I love you. Everything in my life will be tied to this one person. What if some amazing job opportunity opens up and I can’t take it because he’s tied to his job and I end up stuck somewhere I hate for the next 25 years? We want to start a family. What if we can’t get pregnant it ends up ruining our relationship? I’m just scared of everything right now. Is this something most women experience before they get married? Should I call it off until I don’t have any of these second thoughts? Is it just cold feet?


What should Krista do?