Slacker and Steve - OPP: Friend Having an Affair (Audio)

May 22, 2017

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Today's OPP is from Danica:


Yi boys, 

I met up with a friend that I haven’t seen in a long time for dinner. We caught up on spouses, kids, work, and everything else. It was long overdue and we talked about meeting up again soon. After dinner, we went our separate ways but as I was driving the direction she parked her car, I saw her in a parking lot with a guy that was definitely not her husband. They hugged and kissed…and it wasn’t a kiss you would give an acquaintance. It was a deep and romantic kiss. They got in a car together while I was waiting at the light and that was the last I saw them. I’m positive she used the excuse of our dinner to meet up with another guy. I know her husband but I haven’t talked to him in easily over 5 years. My moral compass is spinning all over the place. Would you guys tell her husband? Mind your own business? I know if I say something to her, she’ll probably say it wasn’t her and I don’t have any proof of what I saw. I’m really upset that she used me as the excuse to cheat! What should I do?



What should she do? Tell her friends husband? Let it go?