Slacker and Steve - OPP: Jittery About Co-Worker (Audio)

November 16, 2016

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Today’s OPP is from Candy, here’s what she has to say:



My bf and I have been together for three years. We are making plans for the future and that includes marriage. I love him but I’m not sure what my actions lately mean for our future. There is a guy who works with a company that I work with and there is something about him that makes me smile when I see him. My heart races on the few days a week that he is going to be in our office and two weeks ago I gave him my phone number so we can text. I keep it a secret obviously but when he comes to work I do dress cuter on those days and make sure that I look professional but as sexy as I can. We flirt all day when he is around the office. We haven’t done anything but I love when he’s there because it makes me so excited and he texts me my heart flutters. I have sent him pics but nothing nude…sexy workout gear is the worst I have sent to him. He doesn’t have a girlfriend and I think we’d be great together. I do love my bf but I do love flirting with this guy too. My question is, does this mean I shouldn’t get married. I care deeply about my bf and I do want to spend the rest of my life with him but the excitement of this “relationship” with the guy in the office makes me question whether or not I am ready. Thanks for the help.



What advice would you give Candy?