Slacker and Steve - OPP: Only Slept With One Man (Audio)

August 1, 2016

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Today’s OPP is from Vanessa and she needs your help! Here’s what she said-


Yi guys,

I'm 42 and married with 3 kids. My husband and I were high school sweethearts and we were married and pregnant as soon as we graduated. I've never slept with anyone but my husband. Lately, I've started thinking about sleeping with other men a lot more. My husband and I don't have sex very often and I'm really curious to see what it would be like to be with another man. Do they kiss the same way? Do they act the same way? Do they do the same things? A guy at my work has been very flirty with me and I find myself wanting to give in to him. I'm just nervous because no man other than my husband has ever seen me naked. I love my husband but I also don't know if I can live out the rest of my life with this curiosity. What should I do? Do I ask my husband for a free pass? Do I do it behind his back? Do I die never knowing? Help! –Vanessa


What advice do you have for Vanessa?